The MLCr has to figure it out for themselves. They may not. They might and never tell you. There are other options, but the point is letting them do it. On their own without your interference. You will get mad, angry, sad, etc as you go through this. There is no timeline. It's maddening. It's crazy. It's topsy-turvy. But it will continue on, until one of you end's it.
Funny how just when you think your strong, and you can handle anything they bring your way, you realize how easily you can be rocked! Letting them do it for themselves is maddening!
Where do we find the strength to keep going in the face of "letting them do it for themselves"? THis is definitely something to think about!
The past can't be ahead of you in the future. You don't have to figure it all out, just pick a direction. What's next...I don't know but I can't wait!
