I deleted the backup files for my phone from iTunes and also the mobile sync files.
Haven't had a chance to resync yet, but will do so soon to make sure they are gone!
Wanted to add something (non- computer related ) about the MLCer saying they didn't get to date much.
I met my H when I was 24 and he 26. He dated a lot of girls in high school and college. He had told me he knew from our second date that he wanted to marry me. That he had dated enough women earlier in his life so that he knew exactly what he did and didn't want in a partner.
Yet here I am, going loopty loo with my H.
I guess my point is that whether or not the MLCer dated a lot prior to M is actually irrelevant. If it's not one excuse for their unhappiness, it's another.
AJ was right about so many things in his post.
Letting them figure it out on their own.
Not believing their lies (no matter how much they believe them).
Working towards forgiveness, no matter what happens.
Oh yes, and that this whole thing can be maddening!
Some very good stuff
Bomb January 2012 - doesn't feel the same about me
~ "There is nothing love cannot face; there is no limit to its faith, hope, and endurance."
) about the MLCer saying they didn't get to date much.