25 I don't really think it is her fault of course it is not.
I will take your advice and also MrBond. To just do it. No more thinking of the words before I say it. I only did that because she never believed me. As time went by I think I did plan more and more as less and less cmplimenrs were 'getting through'
Tomorrow when I spend the day with her and D3. I will just soak up the moment. And when I feel something deserves a component I will just day it in whatever words that come out.
Me, H-34 now 38 W-32 now 35 T-13 now 18 years M-6 now 9 Daughter 3 years now 7 Bomb 11/27/12 - OM 1 year in house separation Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017