Ex proposed a plan that may work, but the main problem that I have is that it would involved D2 being moved every week between towns. Basically D2 would be with Ex for 1 week, and then me for 1 week. The problem that I see is that she would be in 2 different daycares and I am worried that it would be to much upheaval for her.
Has anyone else had a situation like this and if so how did the child react?
I don't want to do any harm to D2, but also realize that unless ex gets a better life, which unfortunately she refuses to do until she moves, D2 will be stuck with the ex's poor decisions. To the ex's credit, she is trying to better herself and admits being depressed, which is a good start.
M:35 W:33 M: 5 yrs. Daughter: 2 yr .7/11/10 D Final: 8/7/12
