I don't see anything CV's H has done or said as being intentionally hurtful to CV. CV is feeling hurt by it, yes. But it is not intentional. Her H is a "flower child" bouncing around from thing to thing, living life as it pleases him (not as it serves him, but as it pleases him).
OTOH, it still appears that CV continues to intentionally withhold. Knowing that it hurts her H. If he won't *something* then she won't *something else*.
The intentions still appear quite polar, regardless of "reasons".
