You know you're analyzing things too much. Just do it. Tell her she looks nice or that she's doing a good job. You do that to your D right? Now do it for your W.
Have you even started any of the GAL activities that you listed before? Whatever happened to the cooking classes, etc.?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.