Hi Sweetbriar! I've missed you. Whatever you're doing, keep doing it, because your post sounds incredibly emotionally healthy.

I am so excited for you to have a baby boy. They are the best things in the world, well possibly next to baby girls but I don't know so much about those. I cannot believe you're almost there!

I will pray for you to have an easy delivery and an easy visit with H afterwards. Don't expect anything from him at all, nothing in any way appropriate, and do your own right thing regardless of him, that's what I'd recommend. Having him over to the house sounds like the right thing to do and hopefully he will behave himself.

Gigantic hugs for you (((((((SB)))))), your neighbor,
Adinva

Adinva 51, S20, S18
M24 total
6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out
9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50
5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend
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Happiness is a warm puppy.