Hi SB, Its really good to hear from you again. I was starting to think maybe you went into labor early or something!

You sound very well. I I am excited for you and the upcoming arrival of your new baby boy. I am praying for you and your family. What a joy in the midst of al of this ugliness. Focus on that, as you seem to be doing.

I agree with sub guy about the inappropriateness of H's conversations with your D, and the importance of talking to her about how it makes her feel.

I wonder if at some point (and if this is a good idea) you are able to sit down with H and without accusation, explain to him how this affects her? How it is better for him and her for him to focus on her needs at this time?

I don't know. Just a thought. I just hate to think of the pain and confusion she must feel when hearing such horrible things.

big hug SB (((((((((( )))))))))))

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home