Praying for you and your baby. I could not imagine going through all of this and being pregnant (well pregnant in any way lol). You are a strong woman.
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The most recent was a conversation he had with my D14 when they were out to dinner. He told her that I as a horrible wife for our whole marriage and that I dont know how to treat men. He said that he hopes that she doesnt turn out anything like me when she gets older. This was hard for me to hear, as not only is this something that SHOULDNT be told to my D, but that he still things this. He hasnt changed at all in the 7 months that he has been gone.
That's rough, I have a name for that but will not use it on this forum. Have you asked your d how this makes her feel when he says things like that? She has the right and authority to tell her father to stop putting you down in front of her. A great teaching opportunity for you and her about setting healthy boundaries and enforcing them in a loving yet firm way.
You can not change your past, but you can ruin a perfectly good present by worrying about the future.
