I wouldn't call it losing home if you are living your life as if he's not coming back. This is the advice that we give everyone so that people can begin living once again. Getting stuck in limbo is not healthy for the lbs. It makes the healing time that much longer and more painful.

If playing pool and doing things together as a family will make you feel better, by all means do it. If something isn't working then change it up. There is no right or wrong way when it comes to dealing w/mlc. It is a work in progress not only for the mlcer, but the lbs as well.

Time to take back your life and life it to the fullest.

Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.