Sorry that things are not well in your sitch. You've been on this for a while now. I'm afraid she is going through with this and you have to prepare yourself. Like mr B said, what have you been doing last 3 yrs?
So looks like you have six months, stop the begging, pleading etc. Talk to a lawyer and protect yourself, I noticed you are in Michigan...call Michigan bar association for referrals start talking to lawyers. Get your ducks in a row.
Newman
me40; W43 M18; T~20 D18; S13 & S3 bomb 5/9/11 EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM
Separated 4/1/14
"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.