Cops aren't lawyers but they like to pretend they are. They're trained to side with females in anything remotely like a domestics call. She'll call just to cause me headaches. Tit-for-tat escalation games.
The woman I first met was nothing like this one. It's that body snatcher thing from DR. I'd work on a relationship with the woman I first met. I woke up today once again thinking of her; wondering if I just shouldn't believe what I hear and see.
I have a coffee date with a new woman today so I'll go make the best of that.
Ok. You've known her since may 2012, correct? You started having problems sep 2012...right?
If that is correct, it IS the woman you met. In the beginning we are showing people out best side. Then the real you comes in to play. This is her. When someone shows you who they are, believe them. I've known my H for 13 years. The man he has been the past 3 months, I don't recognize. THAT is what people refer to. I don't want to be with that man. I'm seeing signs of my H, so that's a positive.
I personally believe your fear of the police is an excuse. She has no recourse. I'd simply say, I'll bring you your stuff or you can get it, but we need to close this. 2 weeks all your stuff needs to be out. End of story. This woman sounds like a mess. And IMO, you should really look inward before starting another R. How did you get pulled in so hard, so fast? Why are you still so attached to this woman when you say it's only sexual attraction you really have. Get really honest with yourself. You deserve a great R. Don't jump in so fast next time!! Work on you. Good luck.
M: 9 yrs T: 13 yrs H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs Dbing 12/12 S 1/13 7/13 H moved back in basement. 8/13 #3 born 10/13 still cheating 10/13 He moves across country, I file for D
