i love how Ad put it, its not a switch in the track just a point along the way.

Neither decision is right or wrong both choices have some positives and negatives.

If you choose to continue on the limbo path (family vacation) can you live with that with no expectations. Will you promise to stop taking her temperature??

PS I am trying not to be envious that you have the chance to go on a family vacation

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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13