I think it was what you meant though, before you put it in a more db style. When you aren't able to detach your emotions from her actions, conflict is unbearable. It's a good thing to learn as soon as you can, but your sitch is very new, and it seems wise for you to want to take things slow and heal with space and time.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
