Hi, I know I haven't treated my wife the right way, granting her honor as I should have. The whole household rested on me, to be the leader, the example, to be a kind, patient and understanding husband. And I haven't been none of it. Before trying to take the speck out of her eye, I should have taken the log out of mine.
So for the driving issue, I replied today that during our meeting, thank you for sharing and I concurred with all her concerns. She agreed to share the driving so the effort wouldn't be borne by one only, and that was appreciated. I didn't want to stand in her way but since she promised I expected her to do some driving. I said I trusted her to do what's fair, because I knew her from her past life. And that I was sure she would do what she believed to be right for me and Bruce.
I'm dropping off my rights and my anger. I'm so tired of being always disputing and strife, that I'd rather be wronged than having to put up with another quarrel.
I know that being nice and conciliatory doesn't work with W, but I'm doing this to have peace. And above all peace of mind, so I could sleep and work during the day, rather than thinking whether or how W would retaliate.
Yes she's taking all my money, yes she escaped with my son and manipulated me in promising I would be able to be with them and that was a lie. But if she sues me and want to have my shirt, she can have my cloak also. I will dismiss my L, and tell my wife I'd rather be defrauded than fight against her. I'm already defeated by going to court with her. I'll tell her I don't agree with D, but that I won't contest it. I don't blame her for that, and only trust that she will that what's just. I won't open my mouth to defend myself. It's useless, I may obtain this and that, but I'll lose her.
The only thing I'll cling to, is my S. We've become buddies now, and I really want to shield him from this mess. Bruce
Your W is being petty and her only goal at this point seems to be to punish you. She initially had no interest in having a baby until she saw how she could use the child against you. This is not good for your son. Despicable.
