Ok, so I went back and read your first thread. IMO you should pack her stuff up, drive it to where she is living & leave it in the porch. Lose her number. Block her on FB. Move on!!!
You deserve happiness. You are 30, with no children. Work on you, find someone who will treat you well. She is 28, twice divorced with 3 kids. You've known her since may. Hands down, if my H & I werent M & had no kids, I'd be out of here. Especially after only a few months together.
Have you asked yourself why you want to be with this woman? As a mother, I have to question moving in with someone I barely know with my children...then, 7 months later moving in with a different guy?!?! RED FLAGS!!! RUN!!!
M: 9 yrs T: 13 yrs H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs Dbing 12/12 S 1/13 7/13 H moved back in basement. 8/13 #3 born 10/13 still cheating 10/13 He moves across country, I file for D