Wolverine, so sorry for the pain you're in. If you've been here before you must remember that the sequence you're citing is very common, begging and pleading, a little nice followed by distancing behavior, assurances that it won't change. If you read other sitches you may at least get a little comfort from seeing that this is script.
Breathe, take care of yourself, and see if you can start to figure out why not enough changed in four years for your W to think marriage to you wouldn't become different and better. What do you know about her issues? Why has she been unhappy? Have you been happy in the relationship these past four years?
Rick, sorry man, you must be having an off day today. I hope Wolf can understand that we're all in pain in our own sitches.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
