I spoke with my coach today and she suggested that I refer my H directly to the L. It makes sense, bc he doesn't understand how alimony works. I think he doesn't understand a lot of what goes on in the process.
I like the idea of letting L handle it. It takes the pain and pressure of dealing with H off of you, plus he'll get you a better settlement.
I like how you are taking the high road through all of this, keep it up, you'll never regret it.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
