My H is out w his co-workers for an evening out including OW. Although I am definitely thinking about it, I am not obsessing or even overly concerned about what he might or might not do tonight.

Eventually I figure they will become physical. I actually am surprised it hasn't happened yet (am I sure, yeah, pretty sure it hasn't already happened).

FIL was in 10 hours of brain surgery today, but he will be fine. Coming out of recovery okay, SIL says. That is a huge relief (for me and my H, I'm sure).

His M's death and now his father's surgery and then his S is going to have chemo then surgery starting the beginning of March. It will be a long time before our family sees better times. By then who knows where we'll be.

No GALs planned except boys' basketball games and church on Sunday. Might invite GF over for drinks at my house tomorrow to hang out. Hope to play indoor tennis next w/e (cancelled from last w/e. Want to visit FIL either in hospital or at his home sometime this coming week.

Just chillin' out w my boys tonight! smile


M- 18 T-21
S-14,11 & 10
BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA)
H moved out 11-3-2012
10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life.
11-25-13 Jointly filed.