((((((( ))))))) I understand about just getting used to it. And I think, is that good enough? To just get used to bad treatment? I guess I understand about getting used to it so we detach. Then its not bad treatment anymore. Its just the way it is and it doesn't affect us.
Time can help us I agree. And that even if the interaction doesnt change, we can adjust to it.
They won't give us a chance to be the new people we have become. Thats how much they have been hurt. And the hurt we have is second to that for now. I wish we could have that second chance.
I wish it for our children, I wish it for ourselves, I wish it for our marriages and I wish it for our H's.
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home
