thank you for your positive story... I am so early in my journey with my W and her MLC.... that I am often want to give up.. feels so helpless that I can't even breath some days... and to know it takes years is even harder to imagine... but like most on here.. before this monster came and took my W .... she was one of the best women in the world and would have done anything for me. So now it's my turn to do anything for her. So so hard to let go and watch her with the OM. but he is so much a loser that I just feel bad for her. I am detaching the best I can right now and have been dark for almost 4 weeks now... and plan on staying that way for as long as it takes.
this little movie clip sums up where I am at right now.... I need to get thru this... and with positive stories like yours I know I can...
M-39 W-41 T-9yrs BD-Dec 2012 “regardless of your choices and the fact that they may have caused me to experience painful emotions, I still love you because I recognize the purpose of our journey.”
