Wife said she was done!

[Maritimer]

I finally finished the DR, now I need to go back and re read it to make sure I don’t fall back into many of the behaviors that would have been driving her further away.

I spoke with my IC and he basically suggested that I do the last resort strategy. Due to the pending house sale he suggested I affirm her choice and let her know that I still love her and the kids and that I will be moving forward with or without her as my wife. I am scared to do that as I think she will agree and that’s it , done… but I guess she already told me that. I don’t feel comfortable giving her an ultimatum. Im fully committed in doing my 180’s and think the more she is around to see them the more she will believe they are genuine. She got the preapproval for her mortgage so once the house sells she is out. It just seems so quick to get different places and once we are in separate houses I think the reconciliation process would be more challenging.

I need to realize that there is still hope even if we are in different homes. Tough pill to swallow.