(((BK))) I got the same talk from H that we need to get along for the sake of the kids and learn to work together blah blah. It's all lip service to make them feel better because you know what?
Same here. W gave that talk, and included the 'There's no reason we can't do shared parenting, etc...' for just that reason; to make herself feel better.
But, in the long run, it didn't work. Personally, I think it's like putting a band-aid over a bullet wound. It's a temporary fix and will not help them in the long run - it sure didn't help my W.