What caused you to be a WAS? How were you feeling while walking away? How did the fog lift? What brought it about? How did you approach your SO about reconciling?
The reason for me for becoming a WAS was simply too many years of unresponsiveness to my complaints, and not liking the person I had become in order to actually get a response. The feeling is a combination of resignation, relief, anticipation, fear, regret, anger, resentment, disappointment, confusion, determination, desperation, loneliness, angst, loss, emptiness, bitterness, sadness, and more -- often felt in rapid succession of one another. For me, the "fog" has not left lifted, because H has still not addressed my complaints, and he's regularly hitting about 11 out of 12 of the points LIS listed above.
