I dunno AD. Not sure why you are ok in going on this trip? Or why you are negotiating with the kids for your H?
The way it looks to me is that u are trying to fix the riff between them. Maybe I'm wrong on this.

Let H do all the work with them including this trip.


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

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