You need not get hung up on rings. TRUST me on this. Little you are projecting. You need to detach and start working on yourself. EE was suggested or any workshop to get you started. People have also mention Imago. You are also projecting and trying to figure out his every move. Yes it hurts but you need to move forward.
YOU NEED TO GO 100% DARK.
Did you start to see how he reacted when you said you were going out but didn't tell him where? He got panicked or upset. GOOD. But you're not continuing to do things like this.
You are going DARK FOR YOU. BTW everything he says is scripted. Right down to the very last word. My W also asked for her own bank account and even withdrew money out of our JC. She took the exact amount she came with into the marriage 10 years ago. Sort of comical now.
Don't worry why he isn't filing. You really need to start working on yourself, take the focus off him, go dark, stay mysterious, and find a support system..It doesn't appear to me you are consistantly doing anything suggested to you. You have to. Again I waited 1 year to do so and it wrecked me. Why would you want to do that to yourself?
