Need to let go

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Does he wear his ring? If not, I think that is considered pressure. Maybe a veteran can chime in.

I still wear my ring and my W is in an active affair! But she wears her wedding band and also she has only told a few people of what is going on so I feel by taking mine off it would be forcing the situation to come out into the open. Almost like exposing.

I think is he has taken his off, and your separation is public, it is not making you look strong and forward looking if you still wear it. May even be interpreted as clingy.

That's my opinion but don't rush and take it off before getting other opinions! Do you have a DB coach? I'd you don't, try to get one if you can afford it. My coach has been wonderful and.clarified lots of things for me.