I've been pretty quiet on the board recently. I have really been using it a lot to vent. I'm not sure that is a good idea. Been actually thinking about asking to have my stuff purged. I don't think it would do us any good if my wife was able to somehow come across what I have written here.
What I am certain of is that I haven't really understood what I have needed to do. I haven't really had a handle on what exactly Michele meant when she would speak of TLR technique. Although I have been in this mess for half a year now, I am still learning what is demanded of me.
BTW, if any of you are considering a DB coach, just bite the bullet and pony up and pay for it. They are very insightful. There is a lot of advice on this forum, not all of which is good, constructive and effective advice. You can actually do more damage to your relationship by following the words of some of us on here.
I have recently started reading the posts by women who were once walk aways. I try to read the posts made by people who have successfully made it through this life event. Sandi2 is one person whose posts I have been reading. It is helpful to read her posts, because she is telling us what to do and what not to do from the WAW's perspective. I encourage you to read her posts. Thanks, Sandy2!
