VG, thanks for commenting on my post. I just read your sitch and ours seem so similar. W says she needs space. W running warm and cold. Distancing and BD around the same time. I am also in a cold stage now. Who knows why? I sometimes think S would make things a little easier but it scares me to death. Good luck and I will keep following your sitch.
M 37 W 36 T22 M14 D8 D4 8/2012 distanced BD 11/2012 (likely wants D. Feelings have changed.) W move out date: June 8th.