Thanks for all of the replys everyone. AS, no problem going off topic. That is relevant to my sitch too.
This may be a terrible question but has anyone had thoughts about maybe not wanting to save their M? That hurts me to type that. However, I have been asking myself that recently. Maybe it is because I am so down over the entire sitch. I don't know. Admittedly I am having problems with being resentful toward my W. I am a happy person (was a happy person) and I AM NOT HAPPY! This entire sitch has changed me into someone that I do not want to be. I truly hope that this thought of possibly not wanting to save my M is just a passing feeling. We are definitely doomed if neither one of us are working to save it.
An older couple who had been married over 50 years was asked how they stayed married so long. Their response was that they never fell out of love at the same time. Kind of hits home huh?
M 37 W 36 T22 M14 D8 D4 8/2012 distanced BD 11/2012 (likely wants D. Feelings have changed.) W move out date: June 8th.
