I need to vent.....we do not have 'set times' for D. Which is fine, we can set them week to week. I've been easy going about it so far, such as this week I suggested Tuesday and Friday, he wanted Monday and Thursday, no biggie. And if he's running late from work he lets me no, and that is no problem either. But today we talk about Saturday night, he wont be out of town now. Here's how it went: Me: What time will you pick up D Saturday? H: After practice. Probably evening. Me: Would be nice if you could give some time frame H: Probably 6:30. Practice is 2:30. You know how that sh*t goes. H: 'Would be nice" sounds awful smart, geez. Me: I'm not being smart. It really would be nice. Evening can mean a lot of things. H:Usually means between 5-8 Me: Yes. And if I make plans I don't think it is fair to me to wait at home from 5-8. H: Speaking simply and kindly still isn't your strong suit. You can't just ask a question. "What time are ya thinking?" That's how that's done. THAT would be fair. H: Because missed your request for a time earlier Me: My first question was a simple and kind 'what time...." Sorry if that seemed otherwise. Your reply was vague. H: Nevermind. No longer important.
What? At first I thought he missed my first question about time. But that wouldn't make sense because why would he have started the conversation like that. It's just frustrating because he calls me out like that all the time. Sometimes texts can be misunderstood. But if you realize you missed the point that say, I'm sorry I misunderstood. Don't go bashing me.
Anyway, I hate to be the 'scheduler' and make set times. But don't be disrespectful of my time. I respect his time and don't even get bent out of shape when he runs late in the morning anymore.
It all sounds really silly, just needed to get it out.
