I'm so ready to send him out of my life for good, and live a really happy, God-realized life. Can't wait for that.
Since you guys don't have kids, there's no reason to remain part of his life if you don't want to. Same over here. The way I see it, if my wife doesn't want to fully be my wife (within some reasonable amount of time) or if she has an affair and refuses to end it, then we will not be buddies.
I'll never be mean to her of course, but I don't see her plan of divorcing and remaining best friends working for me. This isn't because I want to hurt her or cut her off, it's just that being only friends with my W of nearly 30 years when I clearly want more would just be too painful for me.
You're continuing to grow stronger as you move forward Tori, I'm sure you'll do well tomorrow. Hugs.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
