Hey Raine. Nobody is "perfect" whatever perfect is. You didn't want to hurt him and that shows regardless of what you said or didn't say. You aren't choosing for him, nor can you make him go to OW's house. His choices how he handles things.
But since you don't want to hurt him, just try to do better next time at not taking the bait, right? It's better for you if you don't take the bait as well. Just note that being "perfect" is unobtainable. Instead, be you and let him figure himself out.
Peace,
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
