I'm very sorry to hear about your D, but I'm glad they caught it early. Maybe a friend could accompany her to her next appointment for support and an extra set of ears. I think it is hard to hear everything a doctor has to say when they are talking about you.
I would consider telling your H. Even though he may not be acting like it, I'm sure he does really care. And it may even be hurtful to him if he thinks you purposely didn't tell him. Just something to think about.
On a lighter note...
Maybe you should hire your H out to do laundry and make some extra money. He can come to my house, I always have loads to do!
Does he like folding and ironing as well?
Hope your H survived his low grade fever lol! I love that you handed him the thermometer
Bomb January 2012 - doesn't feel the same about me
~ "There is nothing love cannot face; there is no limit to its faith, hope, and endurance."