Thanks for sharing all of this with us and for continuing to teach us just how to do it. As you and I were discussing the other day, having a "restored" marriage is not the happy ending, rainbow and unicorns existence we may think. Seeing the issues that life brings to a M and a family even after you go through piecing and are lucky enough to restore your M, are a reminder of how we always have to continue working on ourselves and in making the best of our situations.
Originally Posted By: 25yearsmlc
Understand, I will not let things slide on this. There is no inertia or complacency in ME. I Can't speak for everyone else. But my gut says I just need to find or create a safe place to explore all this.
This^^^^^^ attitude is so admirable and such a clear testament of all the hard work you have done on yourself, through DBing, EE and everything you have opened your heart and mind to. All the things you have chosen to do to become this amazing, strong woman who chooses to face adversity and harship head on, be solution-based in your approach and make the best of things.
You know how I admire you. ((((((((hugs to you)))))))))
Me & H: 44 D7, D6, S3 Together: 20y, M: 17y EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10 EA becomes PA: Spring 2011 H filed for D: 09/06/12 D Negotiating began 2/15 OW seemingly gone on 3/15 Still negotiating D
