Still confused...about everything.

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HOLY MOLY!!!! H just called my cell phone. Something he hasn't done in forever as all we do is text and email.

Anyway, I digress...Sitch today is that my son has his first belt testing for mixed martial arts and H had stated earlier in the week that we should all go and then get dinner afterwards. I didn't bring it up since, but today is the day and his phone call was essentially asking if I planned on going and if I wanted to get dinner.

I calmly and politely said "Well, as long as one parent is there, it should be okay and that you take the time and enjoy it with the boys".

I think he was taken aback by it a little, as this will be the first time I have declined an invitation by him to do something, but I feel that I made the right decision especially with everyhting that is going on with my feelings.

Now the only small thought I have is that I don't want to push him away, and instead want to bring him closer to wanting "us" and our family again. Anyone see a negative impact here?