That part was sarcasm by the way. Even now it just blows my mind that W (or any WAS) could think that treating their spouse like crap is actually beneficial and a GOOD idea!
Well the thought process that goes down for this is that you aren't any one special and they aren't kissing your ass, and it ends up in that they won't do anything for you, and then they say they are not "taking care of you", but they are actively hurting you ontop of it.
The other one is the selfish entitlement of a cake eater. It's not that they concerned that maybe they are hurting you, they are so focused on themself that they never even thought of you...
