Everyone says melototain works great but then you need to take it forever.

I had such trouble sleeping at the beginning, for weeks and weeks but it has gotten better

I am drawn to your case because your W like my H is so clearly in crisis. I know now from almost 2 years into this that crisis WAS take much longer to possibly come back (many do not). The only thing you can do is focus on yourself and your kids.

Please please look for alanon in your area.

It is weird that she is listening to a song you like over & over. A "normal" person doesnt forget (even if their memory is bad) a song their partner liked. Something is wrong.

Also interesting that she is listening to song called respect. She is asking that you show her respect. You need to figure out how she thinks respect looks.

Hang in there. You are doing the best you can in very trying times


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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13