My H would be like that. Gets fixated on some detail and all anxious and shoots me text after text. Ignore, don't feel sorry for him, detach. But also, don't antagonize him. You could have replied at 10:30 the previous night, or to the mid-day message, that you were going to let him know by the end of the next day. All that time you knew that, but you let him think you weren't responding to his simple question, and being "difficult." Just my 2 cents.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.