His boundary to not be in a SSM is no more important than the boundaries you have set.
If all you're getting is lies and deceit, there's no reason that I can think of for you to continue trying to be in a R with him. I can think of no logical or illogical reason for you have to accept his failure to respect your boundaries.
Originally Posted By: lostinscared
Your H gaslights also... Very unhealthy.
Until I read this thread, I didn't have a full concept of what 'gaslighting' is, since I had never really heard the term. Interesting term for a despicable behavior...
