We (W, D21 & D13) sat down for dinner - and joked like we normally do. D13 asked if we could play Uno after dinner and I said sure - I stated that I hadn't won a hand of Uno in 8 years and I doubted that string would get broken tonight...
D21 got up from the table and I grabbed her cell phone and acted like I was messing with it and ran into my bedroom with it. She started yelling and screaming, hitting the door and jerked so hard on the door handle that it broke.
I was kind of dumbfounded as I came out of the bedroom and asked her what her problem was - I had no intention of doing ANYTHING with her phone at all. She started yelling at me saying she doesn't mess with anyone's cell phones - and I reminded her of just a year ago when she made it a habit of spying on her mom's text messages and the fact that until recently she regularly would mess with her sister's phone.
I told her I was just messing with her, and had no intention of changing anything or reading anything on her - I flat didn't care what was on it. I also told her that the next time she acted like that, she would be in need of new living arrangements, since her reaction was extremely uncalled for.
D13 was upset after as she thought we wouldn't get to play Uno - but we did (D13, W and I - D21 hid in her room), for over an hour. And I actually won 3 hands - new record for me.
W commented on how tired she was and that she had trouble sleeping the night before. Said she kept having dreams that made her mad, but, as soon as she'd wake up, she forgot what the dreams were about. She knew that at least one was about her former partner. I had a few sarcastic remarks that popped into my head, but, was able to fight them off.