GTO, I'm so sorry this is where you find yourself. I will echo what the others said about the "script". My H said similar things a week after BD.

You are a strong woman & great mom! I still think that the believe none of what they say & half of what they do applies here. Keep focused on you & the positives in your life.

Big hugs!!!

M: 9 yrs
T: 13 yrs
H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months
Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs
Dbing 12/12
S 1/13
7/13 H moved back in basement.
8/13 #3 born
10/13 still cheating
10/13 He moves across country, I file for D