STBX is really flipping out. He sent the email I mentioned in my previous post at 10.30 last night, asking me if I was still going to attend the mediation meeting given that it was scheduled at the same time as the D hearing. It is a month away.
When I hadn't replied by midday (I was seeing Lawyer at 2pm and wanted to ask his opinion), he flipped me:
"Can you confirm that this mediation date will still be going ahead. I haven't had your reply yet?"
Then, when I returned home at 3.30pm, I saw that he had sent the following at 1.20pm:
"Unless you respond to my request I will discontinue my payments to you. I cannot continue to support you when you are taking such pains to make things difficult for me."
I simply replied that the mediation date was OK with me, and pointed out that he had stopped paying me already. Asked if he could tell me what was going on with the child support payments.
He seems very wound up and agitated. I'm starting to feel sorry for him again. He sounds desperate and confused.
Haven't heard anything back from him at all.
L says we are back at square 1. Until stbx provides full details of his financial situation, we can't proceed.
So, just had to pay a L a few $1,000 to tell his L what all of us already knew.
