how are your kids handling things? Do they ask questions? That's an issue for my sitch b/c I thought ALL the kids were on board with "my forgiveness" plan and our reconciliation.
For a few years, mil's cancer/death kept the focus off our r, even though we were together.
But now, turns out, our youngest is NOT too crazy about h right now. And they drag me into their disputes, (she does most of the involving me)
but the point is, I was wrong to assume that MY work filtered down to them.
THEY Did not attend Retrovaille, h and I did. WE were helped, not the kids.
It's as if I thought they had gone or somehow picked up on my vibes sufficiently to overcome THEIR pain...my mistake.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
