Need to let go

[jp787]

GTO I am sorry to hear this. All I can say is to breathe and then breathe some more!
For me this whole thing is like waling around with a knife in my stomach, with someone else in the picture (my W has someone she had/has an EA with and doesnt want to give up also) makes it feel like someone took that knife and is twisting it and pushing it in deeper. Sorry this is my pain and I feel yours too.
The things I believe in most from all of the amazing advice on here is this:
Believe none of what she says and half of what she does.
GAL and make yourself the best person you can be.
Become a spouse that your H would be crazy to leave.
Don't peruse

There is sooo much more that I like, but those are what is driving me right now.

I honestly emempathize with you, I KNOW it hurts!
Hang in there!!!