Ugh... I'm searching through CV's posts but I have the attention span of a 2 year old. What exactly would there be a contract written on? Where's the post where CV's H said that he was free to lie and it was CV's job to accept it and forgive him? Where's the line? I am all for therapy, I really am. But there comes a time when the agreement we need to reach in order to save the marriage is too intolerable. I could stay in my marriage so long as I'm willing to deal with the lying, cheating, drinking and total and complete emotional abandonment during non-sober moments.
