And btw, in his defense of calling it selfish I guess you had to have heard to whole conversation. His point was that me not giving her the time to change would be selfish. He said she won't change until she begins to see and believe your changes.
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it
