OK well you have a healthy self image and that's good. But your boys noticed you dressing more attractively. That's within the scope of "reinventing yourself" even if it's a small thing.

So, there is nothing out there that you haven't done yet that interests you? You've traveled everywhere you wanted to? Learned all the languages? Can cook any kind of specialty? You already know how to play an instrument at the highest level possible? I'm grasping for something that falls in the category of getting back to who you were at your best, before you became Wife and Mom, the real TigWinkle new and improved version.

These things spark a WAS interest and curiosity while also building the LBS up as a whole fascinating independent person. They are some of the things that eventually might persuade a H that marriage to you might be different from and better than the one he left.

Adinva 51, S20, S18
M24 total
6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out
9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50
5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend
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Happiness is a warm puppy.