My W too. We had a friend leave her husband two years ago because, according to the friend, he spent too much money and wouldn't get a job. W was extremely hard on her and vocal about what it would do to the children. W is now using the friend for support and justification. Blows my mind.
M - 42 W- 37 S's - 9,6 M-12 T-14 FIL- diagnosed with fatal disease spring 2011 ILYBNILWY - march '12 FIL - died jan '13 W Moved out week later
