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Black Ops 2? Yeah, I played a little around the holidays, but didn't really get sucked into it. I still haven't finished the single player. It's kind of funny since I used to be a big gamer. These days, I'd rather work out and get out of the house and do something.


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I think that Tea is causing some delusions...

Look again...


You sure there isn't Monkey crap in it ?????

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Originally Posted By: Breakdown
I was going to go see my Dad yesterday and didn't because W wanted to hang out.


Made up for it this week and went to my Dad's Sat night, came back Sunday. W seemed a little different when I returned. She was asking me if I missed her and was saying she missed me, didn't sleep well without me, etc. That's continued so far this week...even this morning W kissed me and said she loved me before going to work. She has said ILU maybe 5 times in the last year, so that's a bit different.

It seems like the tide may be turning here, but with our next court date only a few days away, I guess we'll have to wait and see. I suspect W will simply continue it again, but I may ask her over the weekend.


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Why ask? You'll know soon enough. Your distance and detachment seem to be working. Do more of what works.


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Originally Posted By: adinva
Why ask? You'll know soon enough. Your distance and detachment seem to be working. Do more of what works.


Fair point...especially since every time we discuss it, she becomes aggressive/defensive.


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Oh yeah, if there ever was a clear answer that's it.


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^^^^ completely agree


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As I got dressed and left this morning, W asked me where I was going. I said our court appearance is this morning and she said "oh, I didn't know" and that was pretty much the discussion.

When I got to court I asked for a dismissal. Of course, W's attorney said "she hasn't said anything to me about dismissing" so that didn't happen. Wishful thinking on my part to an extent, but I thought it was a possibility given our discussion last month.

They set our trial date for Jun 25th, but if the house doesn't sell before then, I think we could postpone a little longer. We'll just have to see where it goes.

W and I are supposed to go give blood this afternoon and then go hang out for a bit...I assume court will be the topic of discussion.

So no good news for the time being.


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